I have written fairly often on the importance of words. Words matter and most of us could be a little more thoughtful when choosing the words that we use. Our words shape how we think, feel, and connect with others. Words carry weight, subtly influencing conversations and relationships.
One word that often sneaks into our sentences, quietly undermining our intentions, is “but.” It’s a small word, just three letters, yet it has a big impact. I believe we should rethink its use—not because it’s inherently bad, but because it often creates barriers where we could build bridges instead.